Love Advice for INTJs

Advice for INTJs in relationships based on personal experience.

Love Advice for INTJs

As an INTJ, I understand the challenges we face in relationships. While we may be cool and collected at first, once we start to develop strong feelings, it's important to maintain our individuality and give our partner space.

We should be careful of our clinginess. When we're in love, we might want to be with our partner all the time. But not everyone can handle this level of affection. Make sure your partner is comfortable with your need for closeness.

Also, be aware of our control issues and insecurity. Take off our masks gradually over time. Don't overwhelm our partner with our intense love too soon.

Take your time to fully trust and commit to your partner. Consider different aspects of their personality and behavior before giving them your whole heart.

Don't be overly invested in the relationship all the time. We both have our own lives and responsibilities. Treat your partner's requests seriously and communicate if you can't fulfill them.

Avoid double standards. Understand that what's acceptable for us may not be for our partner. Strengthen communication but don't force it.

After a breakup, stay calm. You should know your partner's personality by now. Don't assume it's over. Give them space and communicate casually if possible. And most importantly, don't harm yourself.

These are lessons I've learned from my recent breakup. I hope they help other INTJs find love and happiness.