INFJ's Dilemma in Dealing with an ISFJ Man
An INFJ woman shares her confusion and thoughts while interacting with an ISFJ man. She wonders about the nature of their relationship and if there could be more between them.
Understanding an ISFJ Man from an INFJ Woman's Perspective
As an INFJ woman, I've come across an ISFJ man through work. For nearly 40 days now, we chat almost every day. We share our learning, work, and daily life experiences as well as future plans. We both aspire to study abroad. It feels like we are friends who can confide in each other. However, deep down, I wonder if there could be more between us. Perhaps I'm overthinking again.
I sense a spiritual connection and a feeling of compatibility in many aspects. But he seems even more introverted than me. When I take the initiative to reach out, he appears happy. Yet, I don't want to be the one always making the first move as I fear he might find it annoying. And being overly sensitive myself, I'm afraid he'll realize my好感for him.
I also worry that I might be falling for an image of him that I've created in my mind. Due to the current pandemic, we haven't met in person yet. But since we are from the same city, we could meet during summer vacation if we wanted to.
I'm puzzled. Is it in the nature of an ISFJ to engage in long and deep conversations with women? I'm afraid I might be misinterpreting his intentions as romantic when they might not be. Are INFJ and ISFJ a good match?
As I reflect on our interactions, I can't help but wonder about the true nature of his feelings. Is our connection just a friendly one, or could there be something more? The uncertainty is both exciting and nerve-wracking.
I find myself constantly analyzing our conversations, looking for signs that might indicate his interest. But at the same time, I don't want to read too much into things and end up disappointed.
Perhaps the best way forward is to take things slow and see how our relationship evolves naturally. After all, rushing into things might only lead to misunderstandings.
In the meantime, I'll continue to enjoy our conversations and see where they take us. Whether it leads to friendship or something more, only time will tell.