Understanding INFJ's Romantic Relationships

An in-depth look at INFJ personalities in romantic relationships.

Understanding INFJ in Romantic Relationships

"Love appears more naturally in the human heart than its opposite." - Nelson Mandela.

Advocates (INFJ) take the process of finding a romantic partner seriously. People with this personality type seek depth and meaning in their relationships and won't settle for simply finding a spouse on anything less than true love.

It may take some time for INFJs to find a compatible partner. Some may think that Advocates are overly picky. In fact, such people may indeed have unrealistic expectations. Some INFJs may insist on looking for the 'perfect' partner or relationship that may not exist.

That said, the idealism of Advocates - if balanced with enough realism - can actually improve their love lives. INFJs tend to be in harmony with their core values at all times. So they care about harmony and compatibility in a relationship as much as they care about surface attractiveness. This can help them avoid spouses who are insincere or have different principles.

Once INFJs do find a suitable relationship, they rarely take it for granted. Instead, they tend to look for ways to continue personal growth and strengthen their connection with their partner. This can help INFJ relationships reach a depth and sincerity that many people dream of.