INFJ - The Personality Closest to Divinity
INFJ is often regarded as the personality closest to the divine. This article analyzes the characteristics and flaws of INFJs, discussing their idealism, sensitivity, and challenges in interpersonal relationships and pursuit of life ideals. It also offers suggestions on how INFJs can find their way in life.
Title: INFJ - The Personality Closest to the Divine
INFJ is often referred to as the personality closest to the divine. These 'green old men' possess a mental realm that transcends the three realms. They seem capable of attaining enlightenment and becoming immortals on the spot at any time. They equally despise everything while equally embracing everything. They have the wisdom of monks yet possess the ability to enter the secular world and surpass it. Sounds amazing, right? However, such a miraculous personality has a fatal flaw - being overly idealistic.
Due to their innate highly sensitive personality, an inadvertent expression or a single sentence from others can enable INFJs to accurately perceive the inner thoughts and intentions of others. This strong perception endows INFJs with natural compassion. They are friendly and inclusive towards others. At the same time, it makes their demands on their companions and life goals overly rationalized. In interpersonal relationships, they long for soul resonance and disdain superficial relationships and flashy social interactions. On the path of pursuing their life ideals, their idealism makes their pursuits overly lofty while also overly caring about others' opinions. This often leads them into internal conflicts and makes it difficult for them to take action.
We must understand that whether in interpersonal interactions or dealing with the world, there is a need for a continuous process of understanding and delving deeper. Things always develop through gradual accumulation and qualitative changes. When just coming into contact with others, INFJs find it difficult to fully express their inner thoughts. Just as it appears on the surface, INFJs seem like a high mountain, but inside, there is a turbulent magma. Therefore, on the path of making friends or finding a lover, INFJs should give themselves and others more opportunities for in-depth understanding. On the road of realizing their worldly dreams, INFJs must understand that ideals are lofty, but the path to realizing them is extremely realistic. INFJs should be brave in dealing with the world and continuously adjust their directions through trial and error. Remember, people in this world only care about the final result you achieve and not the process. So there is no need to care about others' pointing and criticizing on the path of realizing your dreams. As long as you take ideals as your guiding light and pass through the endless, long, and lonely night, INFJs will eventually find their own path in life.