INFJ Men and Boundary Sense

Exploring the phenomenon of INFJ men and their perceived lack of boundary sense in relationships with the opposite sex. Personal experiences and analysis on possible causes.

The topic of INFJ men and their perceived lack of boundary sense is an interesting one. In this exploration, we'll delve deeper into this phenomenon and try to understand its possible causes.

I. Introduction In recent times, there have been discussions about INFJ men and their supposed lack of boundary sense. This has led to a lot of curiosity and speculation. The author shares personal experiences with INFJ men and wonders about the reasons behind this behavior.

II. Personal Experiences The author recounts meeting an INFJ man and spending a few months with him, including a month living in his house (in different rooms). However, in the end, he said they were just friends. During this time, there was an incident where he was too close to another woman, which led to an argument. Later, he apologized. Examples of his behavior included sharing food with others and撒娇说自己怕黑. Since they were not in a relationship, the author couldn't say much and decided to distance herself.

Another INFJ man, who is married, also exhibited behavior that made the author and other women uncomfortable. This included making sudden phone calls and touching the author's shoulder without a good reason.

III. General Observations The author has noticed similar posts about INFJ men having poor boundary sense in relationships with the opposite sex. However, there is a lack of detailed analysis on this aspect.

IV. Suggestions for Women As an ENTP woman, the author offers some suggestions. First, women can set clear boundaries, such as 'Don't touch me if we're not familiar', 'It's not appropriate to stay at your place if we're not in a certain relationship', and 'Let's not discuss such topics. You should spend time with your girlfriend'. This can help women avoid most of the problems regardless of the other person's MBTI type.

Second, from personal interactions with INFJ men, the author feels that they often seem to have weak boundary sense. Their charm and willingness to interact with women can make them seem like they are 'fishing'. However, if they don't automatically keep a distance from other women for you or aren't extremely proactive towards you, it might mean they don't like you enough.

V. Different Levels of INFJ Men High-level INFJ men are very charming because they are already excellent but still choose to take care of others' feelings and be deliberately low-key. This can attract many women and sometimes be misinterpreted as having unclear boundaries.

Lower-level INFJ men may be hollow and empty. They might study others' preferences and use emotional connections with different women to fill their loneliness.

VI. Conclusion In conclusion, while some INFJ men may seem to have weak boundary sense, it's important to note that this might not be true for all INFJ men. Boundary sense is more related to an individual's moral sense and sense of responsibility rather than just their MBTI type. Additionally, INFJ men's strong desire to help others can sometimes lead to misunderstandings, but they need to exercise self-control in terms of boundaries.